Wednesday 20 March 2019

The Erotic Pleasure Of sissy Humiliation And Embarrassment

3 weeks??!!  Really?  3 weeks!  That's how long it is since i have posted anything to my blog.  Some might think that i may have stopped being a sissy?  Oh no - no way- never!  Once a sissy....always a sissy.  But 3 weeks!  Very naughty of me and i apologise.  It's not as if i have not had anything worth blogging with but somehow time got the better of me and the blog lapsed into a state of suspension.  A poor excuse.
 
 
The title of this blog should be something many sissies can appreciate.  It's about how we just love being humiliated and embarrassed, either by our superior Females or by things we do ourselves.  Before i carry on however, there is one very important point to make on this subject and that is that whatever the scenario or situation there is nothing clever or even remotely erotic about deliberately forcing yourself on other people in order to arouse yourself.  Miss and i had a brief talk about this the other day when She asked what i did when at a public toilet and using the urinals.  The question was very pertinent since i will always be wearing something feminine and girly under outer male clothing.  'Do people see your panties and stockings'? She asked.  i explained how i don't make a fuss and how i don't try to draw attention to myself in those situations.  i simply unzip, remove my tiny clit and do the necessary.  If anyone notices any of my pretties then they notice - i don't force them to notice by doing something outrageous like dropping my jeans to the floor! 
 
 
 
So back to the title of the blog.  A creative thinking Superior Female can certainly put Her sissy in many situations which will provide degrees of humiliation and embarrassment for 'her'.  Miss has done this in the past with direct cuckolding either making me watch or forcing me to listen to Her on the phone.  There's also shopping trips.  Making your sissy buy something for themselves with clear instructions to engage with shop assistants.  There are also possibilities that could be explored with Her trusted friends.  Imagine being told one day that your 'little secret' has been shared - and imagine not knowing who with? 
 
 
Another effective method used by Superior Females it to publically address you as 'sissy'.  This could be on a night out, at a restaurant. anywhere is possible.  It does not have to be forced - just casually used in an everyday conversational style.  Timed to perfection it can be beautifully effective. 
 
As sissies, we are also quite capable of humiliating and embarrassing ourselves.  The simple ways are often the most effective.  Having subtle hints of bra straps showing under tops, having panties peeking out from jeans or trousers.  Even braver sissies have answered their doors to deliveries in nightgowns or bare topped with the clear markings of a bra having been worn.  Again, the key to doing this right and without causing a disturbance is not to force it - rather behave absolutely naturally - which, after all, as a sissy, is what we should be doing anyway. 
 
 
All of this and the many more ways the erotic effects of humiliation and embarrassment can be achieved require a 'confirmation effect'. This effect is best realised with Women. These range from knowing smiles, giggles, stifled laughter, open laughter and even direct questioning.  i know exactly what it is like to experience that moment when my bra has been noticed under a top or my panties have been seen when i'm bending down to a low shelf in a shop.  i've heard the giggles and the laughter.  i've seen the knowing smiles.
 
 
Keep it safe, keep it under control, keep it subtle, keep it 'natural'.  There is so much fun to be had being a sissy in humiliating and embarrassing situations. x
 
 

2 comments:

  1. AJ- you are so right... we need the stimulation of humiliation. :)
    Like my wife telling our friends I'd been painting her toenails that morning. Or pulling my pants-back down so my pink panties showed at the mall... Blush!! hug, Sara

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  2. Thanks, now I could understand a bit more about the enjoyment of humiliation and embarrassment.
    And yes, subtle and "natural", important keywords. 😉❤

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